while sitting in a bar or was it a restaurant? yes, and it was Italian because he was eating the linguini con vongole Billy Collins my favorite poet you know, the poet laureate said that death is the magnetic north of poetry he said this to me while he was sipping his Campari and soda at his table and i was eating my sandwich at my table half a world away and i took the opportunity to disagree with him rather vehemently if you had asked me a number of years ago, I would have told you that fear is the magnetic north of poetry or fast-forward a few years after that and it would have been desperation and a few years after that loneliness or isolation or a year later, that winter is the magnetic north of poetry and i may find myself in agreement with Mr. Collins a few years hence maybe five or ten or twenty who's to say? i may tip my glass to him and agree that death is the magnetic north of poetry but i can't help but believe that right here, right now in this time and place in this car on this couch in this bed that the truth is that love love love is the magnetic north of poetry